The Cardinal From Ukraine

Dear Ravi,

We have a bit of a mystery on our hands. As you know, on Saturday your daddy and I picked out two trees for you, and I planted lots of crocus bulbs to come up next spring. The mystery came in the mail. It was a beautiful cardinal sun catcher made by an artist in Ukraine. There was a little note from the artist, but no sign of who had ordered the cardinal. I asked your cousin Paul, and he said that it was not him. I put out a query on social media, and while lots of people said that this was a very nice gesture, no one owned up to it. Daddy and I are delighted with the sun catcher but would love to know who sent it so we can send them a thank you card. Puzzling. I am certain that the sun catcher was sent to commemorate the first anniversary of your passing. Anyway, the happily little cardinal is perched on my window beneath my reading chair and seems to feel right at home.

Today was a fairly typical Monday, except for one aspect. I got up early, walked Raya, ran Jack Jack and Gloria, and took a walk with your dad. We met with John and Jenn, our osteosarcoma peers, and later I met with Kathy. The only thing different about today is I finally submitted my author bio to Abbey, my editor! I had gotten completely stuck on writing a query to publishers and the bio. Writing a query is basically trying to sell yourself, something that makes me very uncomfortable. Anyway, I sent that in a week or so ago, Abbey made some changes and copy edited it and now it looks pretty good! An author bio should only be about 100 words. It gives a brief description of the writer, in the 3rd person, and is supposed to pique the curiosity of the reader. I sent this to Abbey a couple of hours ago. To the best of my knowledge, your book is done! Congratulations, Ravi! The next job is to find a publisher who is interested in taking my project on.

So, my son, the week of the anniversary of your passing is here. We have been dreading it. I vacillate between feeling okay, to feeling numb, to not being okay at all. I guess this is all parr for the course. On Friday I am going for a walk with Pamela. On Saturday, we want to spend time with Dan and Robin, possibly cooking and watching a favorite show on Netflix. They were the first to arrive on the morning after you passed and stayed by our side during that long, terrible day. On Sunday I will teach Sunday School to 6 very energetic little girls. The flowers on the altar are being given in memory of you. Afterwards, I will go down to the chapel to see you. On Monday, your trees will arrive and be planted. Ravi, I miss you more than words can say, but I know you are flying free and strong. I hope cardinals will come to our trees and eat all the berries. I hope you are happy. I wish I could hug you just one more time. Love you forever, Mom.