Hello, friends, we gamely shuffle forward. Boo is still very sick and weak. We spend most of our waking, and many of your sleeping, hours coaxing fluids and formula into his GJ tube. I am now starting to see a pattern. He is most able to digest fluids and formula early in the day. As the day goes along, he develops a deep hacking cough, trying to get rid of the mucus in his throat. In the evening, he often vomits. A lot of the time the emesis is just stomach bile, but it makes him feel terrible. We are now giving him anti emetics every 8 hours and are hoping this will do the trick. He was seen at clinic on Friday and will be seen again tomorrow, on Monday. Though he is still very fragile, his team has decided to go forward with 6 more doses of radiation, beginning on October 3, ending on October 16. We would like to wait until he is stronger, but we are running a race against time. The tumors in his mandible and his C spine are still growing. The hope is that the radiation will give him some pain relief and also make it possible for him to eat by mouth again. It has been weeks since he has eaten anything orally, and this has greatly contributed to his depression. Thanks to Alissa, I am now in contact with a doctor at Mayo who does cryoablation. He thinks that Ravi might be a candidate to receive cryoablation to his jaw and that would provide considerable pain relief. Hopefully, this would let us cut back on the use of opioids.
Today, the plan is to get Ravi hydrated and fed and out of the house. We want to take him to Target, his happy place. We will put him in a Caroline Cart and push him around the store to his heart’s content. He needs to be out and about. Right now, he travels between his bed at home and the infusion chair on floor 9. We need to expand his horizons.
In the middle of all of this I discovered that I need not one, but two root canals. I have a crown that keeps falling out and another one that fell apart during Boo’s last hospitalization. If that that was not enough fun, I also nicked my right knee and developed MRSA. At first, I thought it was just a spider bite. Then I became unable to put any weight on the knee if I were kneeling. I went for an 8 mile run on Wednesday and it was miserable. I was slow, the knee was stiff, and nothing felt right. I could not get into my regular clinic for a week, so I did a virtual doctor visit. She looked at my knee and said it was cellulitis. She gave me antibiotics to take every 6 hours and said to try warm compresses. After three days it was clear the drugs were having no effect. My knee was red, swollen, full of pus and I felt terrible. I did another virtual doctor visit. This doctor took one look at my knee and said it most almost certainly a MRSA infection. She asked if I worked in childcare or in a hospital. I said no, but that I spent a lot of time in hospitals around children. She prescribed doxycycline and anti-inflammatory drugs. I took the first dose last night before I went to bed. This morning the swelling and redness has gone down and my knee is less stiff. I also feel much more energetic. She had said if things had not improved, I would need to go to an Urgent Care, but I no longer think that this is necessary. I will try a gentle run this afternoon, just to test out the knee and my new running shoes. My marathon to raise money for the Osteosarcoma Institute is in exactly one week. This will probably be my slowest marathon ever, and I don’t care. I just want to run this race. Due to Covid and a spinal fusion, I have not run a marathon since 2018. It is time! Though I ran all summer, I did not get in as many long runs as I would have hoped. Two weeks ago, I ran 20 miles, my longest run in 6 years. It was slow but felt pretty good. The plan for this week is to rest, eat well, foam roll, try to sleep, and get mentally ready for the marathon.
Thank you so much to everyone who contributed to #TeamRavi. Robert and I are overwhelmed by your generosity. My contact person at the Osteosarcoma Institute tells me that they have surpassed their original goal for donations in September. For the last days of September, and today is the last day, donations will be tripled. In case you have not seen the website, I am including it once again. https://osinst.org/herndon-fundraiser
Please go look at the site for no other reason than to see our favorite Boo Bear. Many of the pictures are from his Wish Trip to Duluth. We had such a wonderful 4 days away from cancer and treatments. At that point, he was strong, healthy, and eating with gusto. I hope and pray that he can feel like that once again.
Thank you all for holding us in your prayers. They mean more than we can express. Be good humans and we will be in touch. Peace, Harriet.
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