Tag: cows

Dear Rav,

Welcome to Advent, the Liturgical New Year! We missed church last Sunday as we were coming back from our Thanksgiving trip to the farm, but I am an acolyte at the festival of lessons and carols tomorrow afternoon. I have not been an acolyte in over 30 years, but Deacon George told me to come 45 minutes early and she could get me all ready. It will be a beautiful service.

The trip to see the Agan family and the farm was a wonderful reset and respite. We took long walks in the woods, ate tasty food, played games, counted cows, and met an hour old baby calf! That baby boy took one look at us and bolted! I had no idea that a one-hour old baby could run that fast. Mama cow looked just fine and was not worried about us. She was happily grazing and chewing her cud. She would make lowing noises at her calf, and he would bawl back. All the other mama cows and their babies would join in, and it was sheer, joyful, pandemonium. I can understand how Etta came to her love of cows and other large animals. She is one of the top equine reproductive veterinarians in the world, but her happy place is at home on the farm where she grew up.

We have snow on the ground now and the two baby trees that we planted for you have shed all their leaves and berries. I still have the rabbit bumpers up around their trunks to deter any hungry critters. I am determined that these trees will grow and flourish in the spring. The dogs and cat are not huge fans of the cold. They zip into the backyard and then come flying right back inside. Nikki, the cat, has not charged the back door in weeks. He hates getting his paws cold and wet.

I started PT for my back yesterday and am hopeful that it will help. My spinal fusion which I had done in 2019 is fine, but the spine above C4 and below C7 are starting to deteriorate. Eventually, I will need another surgery, but we are trying to kick that particular can down the road as far as we can. Right now, I am trying PT and muscle relaxants. I may also try injections, massage and acupuncture. I told my PT that my goal was to gain strength and energy, increase range of motion, be free of pain and resume running. She agreed that these were good goals. I am happy to be working with her twice a week for the month of December, or maybe longer. I will check back in the with neurosurgeon in 6 weeks to see how things are doing.

Boo, this time of year seems so empty without you and Mercury. We will celebrate Advent and Christmas by going to church but are not doing anything special otherwise. I trust that you and those that we love and miss are having a joyous celebration in heaven. Please look down on your Uncle Rob and Mercury with grace and pity. They need a lot of help and love. It feels good to be back home and talking to you. I am grateful that Roberta stopped by the chapel on Wednesday night to talk to you. She says that you are a very good listener. I will be at the church most of the day tomorrow and will touch base then. I am doing some autism advocacy today. I know you are flying free, but, oh my love, I miss you. Love you to the moon and back. Mom.